

Ownership, Not Oversight: The Motivation Shift That Changes Everything
The same episode of our family mini-series begins with "Girls, please empty the dishwasher." You might think they are surprised by this request. They ought not be. They have been emptying the dishwasher for years. The negotiation begins -- I have homework, I can't right now, I will only empty the silverware, I am going to take a shower. I used one small shift that made a big difference for us. It might make a big difference in how your teen responds to requests such as emptyi
Feb 12 min read


Visiting Schools We Once Went To
Context: The Class of 2024 began a new tradition, one we have been thinking about for years. After the second marching practice, when...
Jun 9, 20243 min read
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A Late Night Walk [with teenagers]
My neighborhood is laid out in a loop. The loop is less than a mile but more than half a mile. I like to walk it at night, no lights....
Mar 23, 20244 min read
FARCH
From our All-School Assembly, February 28, 2024 Written by Nell Dailey “On this rainy day in February, I want to share a story with you....
Mar 13, 20242 min read


Feeling our Feelings
Recently, I was reminded to name my feelings. Initially, I didn’t take the suggestion well. I struggle to know the difference between mad...
Feb 25, 20242 min read


Motivating your Teens: How do we help teens remember to do the things they need to do?
Vacation week shifts my focus from keeping school operating to home. I struggle to tidy up daily. We have a “if you see it needs to be...
Feb 19, 20244 min read


Let's Talk about Worries
“It’ll be ok. Just take a deep breath.” While that might be true, let me tell you something: my heart is racing, my breath is short, my...
Feb 11, 20244 min read
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